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Have you experienced an emotionally or religiously destructive relationship? This community encourages you to Living Brighter 1% at a time. I’m Tara, Christian Life Coach and two times psych ward attendee from a destructive relationship.

Live Brighter With Tara Tara Wolfe Schaan

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Have you experienced an emotionally or religiously destructive relationship? This community encourages you to Living Brighter 1% at a time. I’m Tara, Christian Life Coach and two times psych ward attendee from a destructive relationship.

    The Power of an Adult | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 40

    The Power of an Adult | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 40

    Ever wondered why siblings can recall vastly different versions of the same childhood events? As a child, we have core needs that we have to receive from our parents and our surroundings, but sometimes, there are things that get in the way of that. As a result, we get wired to the stories we tell ourselves that affect all aspects of our lives. But as adults, we possess the remarkable ability to rewire our brains and redefine our narratives. Discover how we can change our brains and change the way we function in this week’s episode of Live Brighter With Tara.
     
    This is the Power of An Adult!
     
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    PODCAST CHAPTERS:
    00:45 Core needs as a Child and Stories we make as a Child
    02:25 How the stories we experience and tell ourselves play out
    05:15 Our lifeguards and Lawyers in our Brains
    06:41 Explaining a child’s brain
    08:03 How Ideas and Beliefs affects our Relationships and Goals
    09:32 Ramifications of unprocessed stories
    13:05 Power of an Adult: We have the ability to change and how
    15:42 Hypnotherapy
     
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    #siblingsmemoryclash #childhoodmemory #coreneedsdebate #parentalinfluenceexposed #traumaimpactrevealed #childhoodtrauma #childhoodneeds #familydynamics #truthaboutchildhood #violentenvironment #toxicrelationship #traumaeffect #rewritingpastnarratives #repressedmemories #brainrewiring
     

    • 18 min
    The Truth About Confidence: Unlocking Success | Live Brighter Ep 39

    The Truth About Confidence: Unlocking Success | Live Brighter Ep 39

    Ever wondered what sets apart the wildly successful from the rest of us? It's no secret—confidence is the cornerstone of triumph! There’s a lot of myths and misconceptions in regards to confidence, and in this week’s episode, I will be talking about the realms of self-assurance and resilience, and share ways to nurture your confidence that leads to a fulfilling and radiant life.
    Let's unlock the key to success, tune in this week's episode! 
     
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    PODCAST CHAPTERS:
    00:42 Misinformation regarding confidence and difference with Narcissism
    01:57 Things that affected my Confidence
    03:53 My Life Coach Model
    06:03 Lawyer and Lifeguard parts of our Brain and how it affects our Confidence
    08:21 The Hack: Ways to grow in Confidence
    09:02 Embracing our Intrinsic Value
    10:19 Learning to have your back
    12:00 Choosing for our Future Self
    12:45 Willing to Feel our Feelings
    14:58 Gaining Competency
    15:26 Have a life coach or Hypnotherapy
     
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    Tags:
    #ConfidenceConspiracy #SuccessExposed #MythsofConfidence #ResilienceRevealed #UnveilingSelfAssurance #RadicalConfidence #ConfidenceRevolution #BreakingConfidenceBarriers #ConfidenceVersusArrogance #EmbraceSelfBelief #PowerofConfidence #ConfidenceControversy #UnlockSuccess #ConfidenceIsKey #ConfidenceCulture #ConfidenceMythsDebunked #ConfidenceMindset #ConfidenceHacks #TruthAboutConfidence #ConfidenceRedefined
     

    • 17 min
    Detoxifying Your Environment: Unhealthy Relationships Unveiled | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 38

    Detoxifying Your Environment: Unhealthy Relationships Unveiled | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 38

    Is your home a healthy environment? Are the people and relationships around you nurturing your overall health? In the last part of my self-love series, I’ll be talking all about how our environment and the people around us affects us–mentally, emotionally, and physically–and how we can create a healthy environment that is vital to our self-love journey.
     
    Find out how we can detoxify our environment and break free from toxicity that's affecting our boundaries and Self-Love in this week's episode!
     
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    PODCAST CHAPTERS:
    00:56 Our first obligation to our souls: self-acceptance
    02:23 Our environment and how it affects our self-love process
    03:58 Relationships and knowing what’s important to us
    06:07 Creating boundaries
    09:38 Our Physical environment
    12:30 Examples of a healthy home but a destructive relationship
    14:42 Watch Comparisons
    17:22 People in our Environment
    17:58 Check up on your Environment and creating a nurturing environment
     
     
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    Helping Tags:
    #toxichome #toxichometruths #relationshiprealities #healthyhomedebate #environmentexposure #emotionalecosystem #toxicityunmasked #healthyrelationshipsrevealed #mentalhealthmatters #emotionalwellness #physicalhealthimpact #healthylivingjourney #creatingpositivespaces #healingfromtoxicity #revolutionizeyourenvironment #detoxifyyourlife #healthymindhealthylife #loveyourspace #mindbodyconnection #positivevibesonly #transformyourenvironment

    • 19 min
    Choosing Yourself: The truth about self-love | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 37

    Choosing Yourself: The truth about self-love | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 37

    Do you prioritize yourself, or do you feel it is selfish? Prioritizing ourselves is far from selfish and is actually a way for us to lead fulfilling lives and foster healthy relationships. Join me in Part 3 of my 4-part series about Self-Love as I talk about why prioritizing ourselves is essential for our health, relationships, and overall happiness, and learn why investing in ourselves is not only necessary but also an act of kindness towards others.
     
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    PODCAST CHAPTERS:
     

    00:51 What does it mean when kind people love others?
    01:58 What does it mean to love and know ourselves?
    02:46 My biggest hindrance with prioritizing self
    04:09 What do you really NEED in life?
    06:20 Why vocabulary and having the right WORDS is so important
    09:22 Realizing what’s important to you
    11:34 Things we have to overcome as Kind Girls
    12:22 How our relationships affect our kids
    15:33 The Unravel Notebook and unraveling our thoughts and beliefs

     
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    Helping tags:
     
    Self-Prioritization Controversy, The Selfishness Myth Debunked, Breaking the Self-Sacrifice Cycle, Reclaiming Self-Worth, The Power of Self-Investment, Self-Love vs. Selfishness Debate, The Importance of Self-Care, Redefining Selfishness, The Self-Care Revolution, Choosing Yourself, The Cost of Neglecting Self, Self-Care vs. Caregiver Burnout, The Truth About Self-Love, Prioritizing Happiness, The Self-Compassion Challenge,Embracing Self-Worth, The Controversy of Self-Responsibility, The Self-Love Movement, Overcoming Guilt in Self-Care,. The Freedom of Self-Prioritization

    • 17 min
    Silencing the Inner Critic: How Important is our Self-Talk? | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 36

    Silencing the Inner Critic: How Important is our Self-Talk? | Live Brighter With Tara Episode 36

    Do you find yourself constantly criticizing and comparing yourself to others? Or do you tend to speak to yourself in a negative manner? Our self-confidence and level of success are determined by how we talk to and about ourselves. This week, for the second part of my four-part series on self-love, I will discuss how we can love ourselves through our self-talk and outline actionable steps to retrain our brains in order to live a brighter life.
     
    Find out how powerful is positive self-talk in reprogramming our self-worth and self-love, and how we can avoid the comparison trap backlash and self-criticism.
     
     
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    PODCAST CHAPTERS:
    01:24 Understanding our brains and thoughts
    01:47 Two main parts of our brain
    03:45 What helped me understand my self-worth
    05:33 How we can develop our self-talk and thinking 
    09:16 Action steps for negative self-talk how we can retrain our brain
    10:29 Download the encouraging friend
    12:59 Make the choice to boot out the mean girl
    13:13 Ask yourself a couple of questions in the midst of negative self-talk
    14:26 Choose to train
    15:04 The Unravel Notebook
    15:33 Hypnotherapy
     
     
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    Helping tags: #SelfCriticismExposed #ComparisonTrapBacklash #NegativeSelfTalkDilemma #DarkSideofSelfConfidence #ReprogrammingSelfWorth #MythofSuccess #PositiveSelfTalkRevolution #SelfLoveMovement #BreakFreeFromCritique #TruthAboutSelfWorth #SelfReflectionvsCriticism #CostofNegativeSelfTalk #RedefiningSelfPerception #ChooseSelfCompassion #SilencingInnerCritic #EmpowerThroughSelfLove #ControversyofSelfImage #JourneytoSelfAcceptance #OvercomeSelfDoubt #BrighterSelfTalk

    • 18 min
    The Backlash that Comes with Kindness | Live Brighter With Tara Ep 35

    The Backlash that Comes with Kindness | Live Brighter With Tara Ep 35

    Have you heard the phrase “Life is about serving others?”. For us kind girls, we don’t need to hear that message regularly since service is so easy for us that we tend to over-give at the expense of ourselves. While service is important, it’s much more important to have balance and understand the order of things first. Join me in this week’s episode as I talk about how important it is for us to love ourselves and how we can take ownership of our situation.
     
     Avoid the backlash and trap that comes with over-giving by watching this week's episode!
     
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    Podcast Chapters: 
    01:46 Where do we usually get the message that “life is all about serving others”
    02:57 My story with over-serving (My past)
    04:41 Loving ourselves: How can we rediscover ourselves?
    06:20 What are the things that get in the way of loving ourselves? (belief system, trauma, past)
    09:59 What happens when a kind girl gets wounded regularly?
    13:24 What are things we can help with ourselves and knowing to love ourselves?
    14:16 Taking Ownership
    15:11 Choosing to reiterate true beliefs
     
     
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    Helping tags: KindnessTrapExposed, SelfSacrificeDebate, ServiceVsSelfCare, OverGivingSyndrome, BalanceIsKey, SelfLoveRevolution, BreakFreeFromOverGiving, TheMythOfSacrifice, RevolutionizingSelfLove, ChooseYourself, OwnYourSituation, KindnessBacklash, TheCostOfOverGiving, SelfWorthJourney, SelfLoveOverService, TheTruthAboutKindness, RedefiningService, PrioritizeYourself, KindnessDeconstructed, EmpowerYourself

    • 18 min

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Incredibly good!

I love this podcast! Empowering and informative. Tara has beautiful perspectives and it’s very healing.

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Love it!!!

Tara is such an inspiration. Her honesty and ability to see light in any situation is unparalleled. Can’t wait to see listen to more of her podcasts. If you love self-help books and raw honesty mixed with some humor, then you will love this podcast!

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